Apppppuuuuu,
Nimage janmadinada subhasayagalu šš (Happy Birthday!)
Here’s the customary birthday letter from your crazy, old-school roommate. But it’s not just that. It’s not just a birthday letter, it’s much more than that. Think of it as a warm bear hug, a creepy-adorable ear-to-ear smile, a loud and giggly birthday song, a sloppily wrapped birthday gift. Think of it as me, being right there with you, because I really want to. Think of it as a long-overdue “Heyyy, I miss you” after the stupid, hasty goodbye.
As I write this letter to you, I can’t stop thinking about this day, last year. We barely knew eachother. The only thing we thought we had in common was a room, and a handwash, maybe, and two other roommates, ofcourse, but that’s all.
I remember celebrating your birthday – you, in your pink nightsuit, donning a birthday cap. Your sister came to visit. You were happy, but not so much. You were missing home. It was your first birthday away from home, afterall.
Now that you’re home again, I’m sure you miss being at the hostel, with your friends. With this letter, I hope to close the distance, even if it is for this one day.
Now that we can’t go on your birthday trip that we had been planning, let me take you on a journey down the memory lane. Here are some of my fondest memories from our time at IIJNM.
Our beds were placed in two opposite corners of the room, but one day we decided to fit two beds in the space for one. Sharing space with someone can be difficult and even sometimes awkward, but with you, it was all pretty simple and effortless.
No matter how cheesy that sounds, there are mornings when I miss turning around with my eyes half-open and looking at you smiling at me.
We would sit on the terrace, under the tree near the basketball ground, at Akka’s, or outside the media lab, and talk about everything. From complete strangers to being each other’s closest companions, we have come a long way.
I miss that adrenaline rush we’d get every time we were together on a beat, seeking adventure in the stories we did. There’s no one I’d rather do all those life-threatening stunts with/for.
I also miss our Dosa-dates and run for a glass of juice. I miss cooking parathas for you. I promise we’ll do all of this when we meet.
I know we had planned to work and live together, but I guess 2020 had different plans and here we are, staring into the dark. But do not despair. Better things and great adventures await you in the next episode of your life. For now, do what makes you happy and keeps you going.
I want to tell you that I’m extremely proud of the woman that you’ve become. I have seen you struggle your way to the top. I have seen you starting from scratch. I have seen you grow. Your strength, dedication and determination is remarkable and it’ll take you places.
You know what they say: Behind every great college student is an even greater roommate helping them keep their lives in order. Thank you for being the best roommate. I love you.
Now as we inch closer to the end of this letter, I know you’ve noticed how I started it in Kannada. I’ll also end it that way. You know why? You know why.
I remember, when you were really sad/ happy/ confused/ angry, you would switch from English to Kannada, without even noticing it. Those were the moments when I truly started understanding you, despite never really understanding a word of what you said. Kannada is your mother tongue, your go-to language, your means of effective communication and this is my way of thanking you for teaching me a new language. I hope I passed.
Tumba Dhanyawaadagalu for taking me from “Kannada Gotthila” to “Houda, swalpa swalpa mataadtini” šā¤
Also, a few other things I want to tell you:
1. Nivu atyanta sihi (the Sihi-Khaara ad)
2. Nanu ninnanu tumba miss maadtini
3. Hostel life chennagidde, this stupid pandemic chennagilla
4. Nanu ninnanu begane noduttene
Loveeee,
Jaagoo